Hoffman UK Newsletter
Family Time
June News 2010
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Dear Nikki, |  This month kicks off with National Family Week in the UK. It marks our biggest annual celebration of family life, aiming to highlight the
importance of quality time together and promote the benefits of a
healthy, active lifestyle.
We're doing our bit to help by offering a wonderful family-friendly summer party at Florence House in Sussex. It includes a chance to kick up your heels Zumba dancing, sumo wrestle or just wrestle with the barbeque - you could even make it an outdoors adventure and spend the night under canvas. For quality adult time, deeper conversations can be had around the evening bonfire and moonlit strolls in the garden are a romantic option. Read more and book your tickets below.
Continuing the family theme, Hoffman Graduate and psychologist Oliver James has brought out a new book this month all about parenting, so we hope you enjoy working out your parenting styles, as well as listening to his thought-provoking interviews on the links below.
There's a chance this month to participate in a Constellation workshop which allows you to trace and heal family patterns that are having a negative impact on your life, as well as a workshop to support anyone with bi-polar spectrum disorder and, if you're a Hoffman Graduate, you can join the June support call where Matthew is keen to help you introduce more fun into your life!
We're appreciating the relationship we have with our wider Hoffman family this month, as Hoffman Canada hosts our International Conference in Toronto. There are Hoffman Institutes in 14 countries worldwide, so it's quite a jamboree!
Summer is when we often have more free time to consider the kind of life and relationships we've created and how we want to go forward in the future. If this could be the right time for you to do the Process, just call us on 01903 88 99 90 to talk it over.
Wishing you a fun-filled month
Dates for 2010 Processes and Information Evenings are on
our calendar page.
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Summer Party July 31st - August 1st at Florence House
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Lynn, Serena & Tim  | Here's a big date for your diary - our summer parties are famously fun and there's a trio from our earlier May party who'd love to see you! We'll be gathering from 3pm on Saturday July 31st in the beautiful and spacious grounds of Florence House, East Sussex for fun and frolics. Children (and adults!) can work off excess energy sumo wrestling or jumping for joy in the bouncy castle. There are Zumba dance opportunities if you'd like to learn a
fun way to get your blood circulating to the beat. If that works up a thirst you can sip a chilled drink whilst watching the clouds go by in your favourite corner of the garden or chat with like-minded people round the barbeque. The evening brings opportunities for deepening conversations and renewing friendships around the bonfire whilst enjoying the live music.
  Families and children are welcome. We'll be winding up at midnight. You can camp in the grounds overnight for a small charge and breakfast is also available. There is limited overnight accommodation in Florence house which is booked on a first come, first served basis. Camper vans are an option and we've seen some seriously swish tents in past years that brought a whole new perspective to 'glamping'! Please contact Florence House directly to book camping or rooms on: 01323 873700 or email: info@florencehouse.co.ukThe barbeque and buffet is available including drinks from 6-7pm. Please book your tickets on the link below or call the office on: 01903 88 99 90. |
Info Evenings - June 8th London - June 22nd Dublin
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Would you like to find out more about the
Process?
Information Evenings provide a great
opportunity to meet Hoffman Teachers as well
as Hoffman
Graduates, ask questions, hear
people's
experiences and decide if the
Process is right for you now, or in the future.
They're free and there's no need to book. These evenings, held on Tuesdays, start at 7.30pm and
finish around 9.30pm.
Next Information Evening Dates
include: June 8th Regents College, LondonJune 22nd Brooks Hotel, DublinJune 29th Regents College, London
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Info Phone-In June 15th
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Serena Laurence  |
Is the Hoffman Process for you?
Many of you tell us that Information Evenings are very helpful in deciding whether the Process is for you; yet there may not be one convenient to you. So we also offer monthly information phone-ins. These are really lively with callers' questions and interesting input from previous Process participants and Hoffman Teachers. Call from wherever you are in the world and join International and UK Hoffman Director Serena Laurence from 7.30-8.30pm UTC/GMT for our June 15th Information phone-in. You can just listen or if you have a question, we'll be delighted to help.
- How can you tell if the Process is right for you?
- What changes can you expect following the course?
- How do you continue the benefits of the Process once it's over?
- What are the long-term benefits?
Can't make this date? Next call is Tuesday July 6th 7.30 - 8.30pm
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Riding the Wave - A Bi-Polar Workshop led by Simon Matthews
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Simon Laurence  | A Transpersonal Approach to Bi-Polar DisorderThis experiential weekend on 10th and 11th July is for anyone who has been diagnosed with bi-polar spectrum disorder. It offers a chance for self-exploration and to try transpersonal therapeutic approaches that may help you in your daily life. The weekend wil be led by Simon Matthews who is a Hoffman Supervising Teacher and is in the final stage of his training as a transpersonal psychotherapist at the CCPE. This workshop forms part of his final year course work.
Little Venice  | Date: Saturday July 10th and July 11th Times: 10am - 5pm
Venue: Centre for Counselling and Psychotherapy Education, (CCPE),
Beauchamp Lodge, 2 Warwick Crescent, London W2 6NE.
Nearest Tubes: Warwick Avenue or Paddington. Near Little Venice.
Cost: £120. Concessions available according to means.
Booking: Please book with Simon on: 07802 468057 or Email: simon@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk
Places must be pre-booked and are
limited to six, so please book early.
Read more here
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Reconnection Day - London July 10th
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Tom Laughton | Our next London Reconnection Day
is on Saturday July 10th in
Bloomsbury. The day will be led by Hoffman Teacher, Tom Laughton. Cost: £85.
Join us at the Artworkers Guild in Central London from 10am-4.30pm. You'll have a chance to reconnect within yourself and with each other. You'll review how you've integrated the Process into your daily lives, sharing tips and benefits, hearing how it has changed others as well as yourself and your relationships. It offers a chance to see your own progress and set new goals.
You're welcome to go either with your Process buddies or family members who have done the Process or to go alone and make new friends with like-minded people.
Can't make this one?
The next London Reconnection Day is Saturday November 13th.
"Reconnection Day was like being back at the Process, the same intimacy, confidentiality and bonding yet on top of that learning practical skills to keep the Process alive. Thank you!" Christine Mason
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Support Call June 16th - How to Have More Fun
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Matthew Pruen  |
Patterns, Play and Fun - Wednesday June 16th - 7.30-8.45pm
Do you find it easy to relax and be playful? This month's call is focused on how our patterns influence the quality of pleasure and play we experience. Whether you find it hard to be spontaneous or judge play to be 'silly' but secretly wish you could let yourself go and not worry about making a fool of yourself, this call should offer you some insights into your unique combination of patterns and how they affect you when it comes to having fun (or not!).
Led by Matthew Pruen, these calls are ideal when you
finish your Post Process Support
Groups and want to reconnect to the
Process tools. We also welcome
Hoffman Graduates who've been
'out of the loop' and want a fresh perspective. In short -
if you've done the Process - wherever
you live - this one's for you!
Frequently Asked Questions about the
Support Call
Do I have to talk? This and other common
questions are covered in our
support call factsheet.
"I have found the support calls so helpful in staying connected with my Process." Lorna
Booking is Essential - Provided you book before 5pm on the day of the call you'll be sent the number to call and the PIN once you book.
Click to find out more and to book on this call and future calls - you'll need the password
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Family Constellation Weekend Workshop, London
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Gaye Donaldson  | Family Constellations Weekend Workshop
Tracing and healing family patterns with Matthew Pruen and Gaye Donaldson
'Systemic Constellation Work', as the approach founded by German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger is often called, is a wonderfully effective way of mapping patterns that run through generations to find lasting resolutions.
Constellation work addresses a wide range of issues including: - Fractured and difficult relationships between couples and family members
- Relational and professional problems at work
- Chronic illness, addictions, depression, lack of motivation
- Bereavement, loss, suicidal tendencies
- Adoption, abortion, illegitimacy, incest, rape
- Ancestral issues, family secrets, ruptures, divorce, violence
- Life changes and choices, assessing strategies and solutions
- Finding and feeling our own resources and strength
Dates: June 11&12
Venue: The October Gallery, 24 Old Gloucester Street, London, WC1N 3AL Cost: £180.00 per person for the two days. Couples discount and bursaries are available.
For booking and enquiries email:
matthew@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk
'I wholeheartedly recommend
these workshops to any Hoffman graduate wanting to deepen their Process
experience.' Serena Laurence
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Business Listing - Support from Hoffman Graduates
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Our listing page is a great way for Hoffman
Graduates to connect through work and leisure. From retreats and holiday lets, from homeopaths to lawyers, you should find the service you need! The listings page appears on the Hoffman Ireland Site as well as the Hoffman UK Site. If you're a Hoffman Graduate and you'd like
to list your own services, just click the
listing link below where you'll find an entry
form and online payment facility. Click here for the Business Listing
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Closure - For Hoffman Graduates only
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 Next Closure Dates
June 17th Chrysalis, Co Wicklow Teachers: Eliza and Tom June 24th Florence House, Sussex Teachers: Simon, Mairi and Andrea July 15th Oxon Hoath, Kent Teachers: Mairi, Donna, Gabi and Matthew July 29th Florence House, Sussex Teachers: Eliza, Matthew and Mairi Remember, numbers are limited and it starts at 5pm prompt. (7pm if you can only make dinner). In the UK please book in advance with the Hoffman Office on +44 (0)1903 88 99 90. or email: info@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk. Dinner is £17. The cost is payable direct to the site. In Ireland book direct with Chrysalis on 045 404 713. Dinner is 15 Euros. You can't attend Closure of a spouse or child, though we'd love to see you at their Welcome Home. 'Attending Closure is my favourite post-process activity. I reconnect with my own Process in ever different ways, and at the same time, am able to take great pleasure in knowing that my experience and even my presence plays some small part in the never-to-be-forgotten memories of the new graduates.' David, Herts |
5th Year Anniversary - London Support Group Celebrations
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Diane and Bruce  | London's Burning - with anniversary candles!
A HUGE Hoffman thank you to Bruce Harris and Diane Gallagher who have done such a wonderful service in offering regular support groups in London so consistently for the past five years. Enjoying a cake baked by Diane, the Central London Support Group celebrated their 5th birthday on April 13th - 5 years to the day after what was intended to be a 'one-off' meeting! If you're a Hoffman Graduate reading this, their next meeting is Wednesday July 7th and new people are always welcome. Contact details below. Graduates sharing at the May meeting  | 'It's always rewarding to see how much light and joy is shared at the meetings and how willing everyone is to try new things.
We make a point of having fun from time to time - we've even had special improvised comedy evenings! We also ensure there are nibbles and soft drinks before and, for those that want, pizza afterwards.
If you're thinking of starting a group I'd suggest including fun, giving lots of chances for sharing - and not to be scared to experiment!' Bruce Harris To be kept informed of meetings please email
diane-gallagher@ukgateway.net Bruce and Diane who organise
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| Support News | 
Please keep in touch by checking our support group page on the website for current support groups or contacts in your area.
Guest Support Group Facilitators
Remember that you can book Hoffman Teachers to be guest facilitators for your groups or for one to one coaching. Click here for Hoffman Teacher contact details.You'll need the password
Central London support group
The next meeting is Wednesday July 7th. There's a £5 attendance charge. To go on the local mailing list please contact Diane. Email: diane-gallagher@ukgateway.net or Tel: +44 (0)7947 068 625.
NEW - West Sussex
Jenny near Littlehampton and Mary near Portsmouth are keen to get a
group started. Please email Jenny: jenny.music@lycos.com or Mary: mary_grundy@hotmail.com to
express your interest. NEW - Kent, Ashford
Please contact Nicola in Ashford on: 07884 18854 or Email: nicolaash78@yahoo.co.uk NEW - Bermuda
Sarah Browne would love to hear from other Hoffman Graduates on the with a view to starting a support group. Please email her at sarahbrowne2004@hotmail.com or call: +1 441 236 9112
Dublin
To be put on a local mailing list contact David Gibson on: dbg@dna.ie or call: 01 862 3564
Edinburgh
Lynn is the contact for a thriving group in this area. Please email her at: lynn.edinsupport@virgin.net Glasgow
Margot Clayton based in Milngavie, 20 mins from Glasgow city centre, runs an occasional support group and e-group. To join a local mailing list call her on: 0141 956 5526 or Email: margot.clayton@btinternet.com
Cumbria and North East
Please contact Sharu in Carlisle, Cumbria if you'd like to meet up. Email: sharuscott@hotmail.com or call: 01228 562 368 or 07900 108845 NEW - York
Viv has now started a support group in York, so please contact her if you'd like to go on the mailing list for news. Tel: 07951 943774
or 01904 788374. Email: viv@flamangoes.co.uk
Sheffield
Nicci in Sheffield would welcome contact from other Hoffies with a view to setting up a group. Tel: 07763 773953. Email:
nicola.gilkes@btinternet.com South Wales
For details of the next meeting of the Cardiff self-support group please email Garthine on walkergm@cardiff.ac.uk or phone 07946 445559 (email preferred) Leicester - East Midlands
Aubyn is a Hoffman Graduate in this area and would love to hear from other Graduates. Call her on: 0116 259 5234 or Email: aubyn@delisle.co.uk
North West - Liverpool
Jo Lloyd runs a self-support group in Liverpool and an e-board for local Hoffman Grads. To join the eboard email: jo1972@hotmail.com or Tel: 0151 928 3205 or 07950 536 047.
Oxford
Jon is the contact for a thriving group in the Oxford area. If you'd like to take part, please contact him at jontreanor@conduitpartners.co.uk or Tel: 01865 884188 or Mobile 07787 513205. Cambridge
Rosie is interested in setting up a support group in the Cambridge area. Please contact her on p.wilson34@ntlworld.com or call: 01223 570890.
East Sussex
If you'd like to know the next support meeting dates please call Andrea on 01273 604867 or 07770 450100 or email: loveshackmarshall@hotmail.com.
For news, join the Sussex Hoffman E- noticeboard email: nikki@spiritoftransformation.com If there's no support group local to you, why not volunteer to be the contact person in your area? Just ring Nikki on Wednesdays or Fridays on: 01903 88 99 90 or Email: nikki@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk |
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Warm Wishes
 The Hoffman Team
Hoffman Institute UK
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