Hoffman UK Newsletter
Getting Together
December News 2009
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Dear Nikki,
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All of us here at Hoffman UK would like to welcome you to the last newsletter of 2009. It's wonderful that readership has increased by 15% over the past year and we've had a 75% increase in visitors to our website. We hope that some of the newsletter items have inspired you to take steps to implement positive changes in your life.
All transformation takes courage and spiritual transformation even more so. As you read this, there are people embarking on the Hoffman Process in the UK, as well as Bahrain, Argentina, Spain, Germany, France, Canada, the USA and Brazil. How amazing is that! One thing that these participants will all have in common is a new openness and self-awareness, which will impact not only on them but also their families around the world.
When author and Hoffman Graduate Lesley Garner asked her father how she could ever repay the love he had shown her, he simply said "Pass it on".
With this phrase in mind we encourage all of you to think of somethng positive that you have experienced this year and to share it with someone you're close to. If we all pass something wonderful on, who knows what global changes we might initiate!
For those of you who have done the Process, you'll find opportunities in this issue to help deepen and expand your understanding of family patterns. For those of you who haven't done the Process we hope that you enjoy our monthly newsletters and that you'll continue to stay in touch through 2010.
Click for Lesley's article: How to Find Peace in a Stressful World.
Dates for 2010 Processes and Information Evenings are on
our calendar page.
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Jersey Events January 28th and January 30th
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 Hoffman Teachers Mairi Russell and Donna Lancaster are coming to Jersey in the New Year offering two events. Information Evening in Jersey - Thursday January 28thOur Jersey information evening is at 7.30 - 9.30pm at the Ouless Room, Jersey Museum, St Helier. It's free and there's no need to book. It's a great way to meet people who have done the Process and who can answer any questions you may have from their personal experience. If you're a Hoffman graduate reading this - we'd love to see you! Supergraduate Day in Jersey - Saturday January 30thIf any new patterns are finding their way to
the surface since your Process then here's a
chance to refresh your Hoffman Tools in this full, interactive day led by Mairi and Donna. You'll have a chance to get to know other
Hoffman Graduates and release patterns old and new
as you practice your Hoffman
techniques. Most of all you'll leave with that
wonderful Process buzz!
'I refer many clients to the Hoffman. The
facts are simply these: of those
who attended there hasn't been one
failure. I can't say that about any other
therapeutic process I know and I've trained
in many of them'. Cliff Le Clercq, The
Life Clinic, Jersey One to One SessionsMairi and Donna are offering individual coaching sessions to Hoffman Graduates on Friday January 29th. If you're interested please email Mairi: mairi@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk or email Donna donna@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk.
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Xmas Party - We're springing into action!
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 We're so sorry to disappoint those of you who were looking forward to the Christmas party. Unfortunately we had some venue problems. But rumour has it that here at Hoffman, Santa can put in an appearance any
time of year....so in the spirit of change - which as you know we are very serious about! - our Christmas Party has now morphed into a Spring Garden Party. We'll be dancing round the maypole on Saturday May 1st so that's a date you CAN put in your diary - or Santa gets the sack!
We hope that you'll find ways of celebrating with your Hoffman buddies this Christmas and we look forward to seeing you all in the Spring.
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Info Phone-In January 5th
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Is the Hoffman Process for you?
Many of you tell us that Information Evenings are very helpful in deciding whether the Process is for you; yet London or Dublin may not be convenient. So we now offer monthly information phone-ins. They are really lively with callers questions and interesting input from previous Process participants and Hoffman Teachers. Call from wherever you are in the world and join UK Hoffman Director Serena Laurence, pictured here, from 7.30 - 8.30pm UTC/GMT for our January 5th Information phone-in. You can just listen or if you have a question, we'll be delighted to help. We'll cover topics such as:
- How can you tell if the Process is right for you?
- What changes can you expect following the course?
- How do you continue the benefits of the Process once it's over?
- What are the long-term benefits?
Can't make this date? Next call is Tuesday February 23rd 7.30 - 8.30pm
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Info Evenings
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Would you like to find out more about the
Process?
Information Evenings provide a great
opportunity to meet Hoffman Teachers as well
as Hoffman
Graduates, ask questions, hear
people's
experiences and decide if the
Process is right for you now, or in the future.
They're free and there's no need to book.
Evenings start at 7.30pm and
finish around 9.30pm.
Next Information Evening Dates
include:
December 15th
Regents College, LondonJanuary 19th
Regents College, LondonFebruary 9th
Regents College, LondonMarch 16th
Brooks Hotel, Dublin, Ireland
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How the Other Half Lives - Can you Help?
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How the Other Half Lives is a ground-breaking documentary series about child poverty produced for Channel 4 by RDF Television (also producers of the award winning and critically acclaimed series, The Secret Millionaire.) Following the success of the first series, they are now looking for well-off families to take part in the second series by sponsoring a family facing hardship. Each programme observes the lifestyles of two families from different ends of the economic spectrum, ideally with at least one child aged over 8 years, as the better off family help the low income family to get back on their feet. Families who took part in the last series felt it was an invaluable learning experience for their children, as the programme's aim is to highlight the issues surrounding child poverty in the UK. As is typical in television, their deadlines are very tight. If you'd like to know more about the series or discuss participation, contact Jo Trigg on: 020 7013 4149 or email: jo.trigg@rdftelevision.comWe put out a similar appeal for someone to take part in a silent retreat earlier this year and the BBC selected a Hoffman Graduate to participate, so let's hope it happens again! Read about the series on the Save the Children website: www.savethechildren.org.uk/en/41_9051.htm. Click to watch a clip of the series: www.channel4.com/programmes/how-the-other-half-live/video
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Exciting News for 2010!
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 We've put together some inspiring events for 2010 to provide Hoffman Graduates with ways to extend and deepen the original Process experience. As well as Graduate Reconnection Days and Support Calls new events will include: Q2 in Bahrain - see below Family Constellation workshops - see below A 3-day Sibling workshop to work on patterns related to siblings Q2 3-day Intensives - one for men and one for women. Relationship workshopsA Spring Garden PartyA Supergraduate Day in Scotland - who knows, this may lead to a Process there! We'll also be hosting a weekend Summer Festival in the lovely grounds of Florence House in Seaford, East Sussex in August. Stay in touch for dates, venues and prices. Keep checking newsletters and graduate calender. |
Q2 - 3 day intensive January 28-30
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 We're kicking off the New Year in Bahrain with a chance for Hoffman Graduates to refresh Process techniques, release stubborn patterns and explore current life issues. The 3 day intensive will run from January 28-30 at The Sea Loft Hotel on Amwaj Island, Bahrain, which offers beautiful sea views over the Arabian Gulf. The island is a short drive just north of Manama, convenient to the airport. For more details and to book please email Jacqui at: admin@hoffmaninthegulf.com
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| Reconnection Day, January 16th in Central London |

Work on all the issues that have come up over the Christmas holidays at our next Reconnection Day on Saturday January 16th. This will be led by Hoffman Teacher Tom Laughton and held at The Artworkers Guild, Bloomsbury, London WC1.
The last Reconnection Day was fully booked well ahead of time, and places are limited to twelve, so if you'd like to come, please call the Hoffman office on 01903 88 99 90 or click the link below to book online.
Reconnection Days offer a chance to reconnect with your Hoffman experience, the Hoffman techniques and with those aspects of yourself that might be in need of nurture and attention.
"It was like being back at the Process, the same intimacy, confidentiality and bonding yet on top of that learning practical skills to keep the Process alive. Thank you!" Christine Mason
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Support Call January 13th |
Family Relationships - Wednesday January 13th
January's call is focused on taking a fresh look at your Process vision.
Led by Esme Page, one of our most experienced Supervising Teachers, these support calls are ideal if you've
finished your Post Process Support
Groups and want to reconnect to the
Process tools. We also welcome
Hoffman Graduates who have been
'out of the loop' and want to refresh their perspective. In short -
if you've done the Process - wherever
you live - this one's for you!
Frequently Asked Questions about the
Support Call
Do I have to talk? This and other common
questions are covered in our
support call factsheet.
"I have found the support calls so helpful in staying connected with my Process. The ones on relationships have helped me to understand the games I play - that I wasn't even aware of. I've been able to feel patterns coming up in many of my relationships post process - but the drama triangle discussed last time, has helped me see more clearly what's going on." Lorna
Booking is Essential - You'll be sent the PIN and number to call once you book.
Click to find out more and to book on this call and future calls
2010 Calls - As a result of their popularity, support calls in 2010 will run from 7pm-8.15pm to allow more individual interaction and cost £18.50 per call.
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Business Listing - Support from Hoffman Graduates
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Our listing page is a great way for Hoffman
Graduates to connect through work and leisure. From retreats and holiday lets, from homeopaths to lawyers, you should find the service you need!
If you've had enough of grey British skies and fancy lying on a sun drenched terrace in Morocco with bougainvilleas, olives and hibiscus trees, then Hoffman Graduate Lucie Anderson-Wood offers you just that, with a free 3 course organic meal for fellow Graduates. Other great venues in Italy and Spain are on offer or if you fancy more excitement than competing for a sun lounger we even have a Hoffman Graduate offering bespoke African safaris!
If you're a Hoffman Graduate and you'd like
to list your own services, just click the
listing link below where you'll find an entry
form and online payment facility. Click here for the Business Listing
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Closure - For Hoffman Graduates only
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 Next Closure Dates - 2009 and 2010December 10th Oxon Hoath, Nr Tonbridge, Kent Teachers: Eliza, Simon, Donna, Tom January 14th Florence House, Sussex
Teachers: Simon, Mairi and Donna Remember, numbers are limited and it starts at 5pm prompt. (7pm if you can only make dinner). In the UK please book in advance with the Hoffman Office on +44 (0)1903 88 99 90. or email: info@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk. Dinner is £16. The cost is payable direct to the site. In Ireland book direct with Chrysalis on 045 404 713. Dinner is 15 Euros. You can't attend Closure of a spouse or child, though we'd love to see you at their Welcome Home. 'Attending Closure is my favourite post-process activity. I reconnect with my own Process in ever different ways, and at the same time, am able to take great pleasure in knowing that my experience and even my presence plays some small part in the never-to-be-forgotten memories of the new graduates.' David, Herts
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Family Constellations Workshops for Hoffman Graduates London 2010
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Constellations is a powerful group approach that maps family patterns and finds holistic resolutions. It fits beautifully with the understandings of the Hoffman Process.
In 2010 Hoffman Graduate
Gaye Donaldson and Hoffman Teacher Matthew Pruen are offering two and one day workshops for Hoffman Graduates in Central London. Family constellations can enhance and deepen your perspective and vision of your family patterns through many generations. Dates offered include:  - February 26/27
- April 9
- June 11/12
Booking and enquiries are via email to:
matthew@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk and you can click here for more information 'I am delighted that Matthew Pruen and Gaye Donaldson are able to offer Hoffman graduates a chance to work with Constellations next year. My own experience of this work, both personally and with on-going Hoffman Institute affairs, has been powerfully affecting and impressive. This work has helped us diagnose vital, underlying issues that have held back our growth and shed light on healing possibilities that had previously remained obscure. I wholeheartedly recommend these workshops to any Hofman graduate wanting to deepen their Process experience and look forward to working with them again next year.' Serena Laurence
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| Support News |
Please keep in touch by checking our support group page on the website for current support groups or contacts in your area.
Guest Facilitators Remember that you can book Hoffman Teachers to be guest facilitators for your groups or for one to one coaching. Click here for Hoffman Teacher contact details. You'll need the password
Central London support group The next support evening is Monday December 14th. There's a £5 attendance charge. To go on the local mailing list please contact Diane. Email: diane-gallagher@ukgateway.net or Tel: +44 (0)7947 068 625.
Dublin For details of the next meeting of the Dublin support group and to be put on a local mailing list contact David Gibson on: dbg@dna.ie or call: 01 862 3564
Edinburgh Lynn is the contact for a thriving group in this area. Please email her at: lynn.edinsupport@virgin.net
Glasgow Margot Clayton based in Milngavie, 20 mins from Glasgow city centre, has started a support group and e-group. The next meeting will be on Thursday 26th November. To be put on a local mailing list call Margot on: 0141 956 5526 or Email: margot.clayton@btinternet.com
Sheffield Nicci in Sheffield would welcome contact from other Hoffies with a view to setting up a group. Tel: 07763 773953. Email: nicola.gilkes@btinternet.com
South Wales For details of the next meeting of the Cardiff self-support group please email Garthine on walkergm@cardiff.ac.uk or phone 07946 445559 (email preferred)
North West Jo Lloyd runs a self-support group in Liverpool and an e-board for local Hoffman Grads. To join the eboard email: jo1972@hotmail.com or Tel: 0151 928 3205 or 07950 536 047.
Oxford Jon is interested in setting up a support group in the Oxford area. If you'd like to take part, please contact him at jontreanor@conduitpartners.co.uk or Tel: 01865 884188 or Mobile 07787 513205.
Cambridge Rosie is interested in setting up a support group in the Cambridge area. Please contact her on p.wilson34@ntlworld.com or call: 01223 570890.
Reading Beth Stanley would like to restart a Hoffman support group in this area. Email her if you're interested at: beth@hannahbethcoaching.com or Telephone: 07835 016 136.
East Sussex The next support meeting in Brighton will be in 2010 in Brighton. If you're interested in being kept up to date please call Andrea on 01273 604867 or 07770 450100 or email: loveshackmarshall@hotmail.com. For news, join the Sussex Hoffman E- noticeboard email: nikki@spiritoftransformation.com York Viv would love to be in touch with any other Hoffman graduates in York, or the surrounding areas, with a view to starting a group. Tel: 07951 943774 or 01904 788374. Email: viv@flamangoes.co.uk
If there's no support group local to you, why not volunteer to be the contact person in your area? Just ring Nikki on Wednesdays or Fridays on: 01903 88 99 90 or Email: nikki@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk |
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With all good wishes to you and your families at this time of year. Thank you all for your support and we look forward to sharing more events and stories with you next year.
The Hoffman Team
Hoffman Institute UK
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"One kind word can warm three winter months." Japanese Proverb
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